Sometimes, when obtaining to arrive at the goal you feel a euphoria that vanishes soon after and now, what? , you ask yourself. What? Then another goal, a new challenge, a new illusion. The illusions are free and the goals also. (Francisco de Sales) If you are in a while of brings back to consciousness of your present reality, it is important that you begin marcarte goals. With very many care, because this decision to restore them can be as useful as dangerous. The goals, used well, animate and stimulate to obtain them to you: if you want to do or to obtain something, and you have marked goals, you know to why you go, and already you put in it your effort and spirit. That allows you to follow a Way, not perderte in questionings and constant doubts, and to know towards where there are to direct will and energies. In that sense, it is very useful and absolutely necessary to have goals: they give the confidence that contributes knowing the sense the things that become, and foments the hope and the own security, because it knows what is what it is wanted and it goes away to for this reason, and in addition one settles illusion in that desire to reach it.
In view of the exposed thing, he is positive. It really is thus. But a goal without a good plan is only a desire. It serves as very little. It does not have force, and are null his possibilities of accomplishment. You must wish a goal clear and to draw up a plan that makes it possible: a good plan designed already is a fifty obtained percent. The complication begins when that goal is very far or is impossible: then one becomes against you, because it creates the frustration of the unattainable thing, and we added if it to the disagreement that is created when he is not very safe of what it is what it is wanted, the union of both things ends at an inevitable crisis.