" A drop of honey hunts but flies that a gallon of hiel A. Lincoln the discussions is manifestations that arise at any time that a discord is pronounced and when estro happens we must be kind, preparations to confront it in order to even avoid consequences majors that affects to us psychic and until physically. We cannot leave emotions them, the impulses are pronounced freely and taken passage to discussions that unbalance our behavior, threaten our personality, attempt against our conduct. We must know how to confront it with balance, sapiencia, a dominion of the situation and to avoid consequence majors. Daniel Carnegie confronts east subject to us, contributing some suggestions to us that we considered important to remember it to interested in this subject, reason why he represents his contribution and he allows to understand the reach us and like handling the fact. Us he narrates an own experience of how advance to a discussion and thus could be avoided it of the comfortable way but for the two parts.
And he learned this way to avoid them discussions. He indicates, if he discusses you and fight and contradicts, can obtain a triumph sometimes, but it will be a triumph drained, because she will never obtain the good will of the opponent thinks about this then " What prefer you? To have an academic, theater victory or the good will of a man. Very not very often it will obtain the two things. In order to prevent that a discord becomes a discussion? It accepts the discord? I distrusted of his first instinctive impression? It controls its character? First it listens? It looks for the agreement areas? He is honest Remembers the following suggestions and the results will be to him favorable: The unique form to gain a discussion is avoiding it. It is safe means to conquer enemies and like avoiding it? It does not even contradict the people knowing that this bad act since this person will lose the pride.